Breaking down stigma and starting the conversation about dementia

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Breaking down stigma and starting the conversation about dementia
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For more than a decade, a small group of Bruce McLaren Village residents has been coming together to share experiences, learn from one another and offer support to people affected by dementia.

Established in partnership with Alzheimer's support services, the village's dementia support group provides a welcoming space for residents and their families to connect over a coffee and conversation.

For resident Glennis Bason, one of the group's most important roles is helping to challenge misconceptions about dementia.

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"It's just another part of the body that's ageing and unwell and yet there's this stigma," says Glennis.

"Also, there are so many grades of dementia. Not everyone has aggressive behaviours so it's not all doom and gloom."

Glennis understands the challenges first-hand. Her husband Bill was diagnosed with mild dementia after concerns about forgetfulness led to specialist assessments and brain scans.

When the couple moved to the village four years ago, Glennis joined the support group and became passionate about helping others facing a similar journey.

The group offers a chance to share experiences, discuss challenges and learn practical ways to navigate the changes dementia can bring. Over the years, guest speakers from Alzheimer's organisations and healthcare services have provided information about diagnosis, support options and coping strategies.

The group's work reflects Ryman's broader commitment to dementia care and wellbeing. The organisation has achieved Dementia Friendly accreditation and invests in dementia education, person-centred care and support programmes designed to help people living with dementia and those who care for them. Team members receive specialised dementia training, and villages maintain close links with local Alzheimer's and dementia organisations.

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Both Jane (left) and Glennis say that meeting with others in the group has been an incredible support for them both over the years.

For Jane Clansey, who joined the group after her husband Teddy was diagnosed and now coordinates the regular catch-ups, the support and information available made a real difference.

"When I came in we'd been diagnosed about 18 months before and there was the group here. Some of the speakers we've had in provided really good information, it was really valuable," says Jane.

Today, the group continues to support people through every stage of the dementia journey.

One of the messages Jane believes is most important for people to hear is that help is available.

"Acceptance is here and you're not alone and you've got support if you want it," she says.

The group also recognises the vital role caregivers play.

"I don't think enough attention is given to the caregiver," says Glennis. "It can be very lonely and very stressful, but help is within reach, especially here in the village."

To help raise awareness and encourage open conversations about dementia, Bruce McLaren Village will host an information session on 30 October featuring a representative from Alzheimer's New Zealand. Residents, family members and anyone interested in learning more are warmly encouraged to attend.

*If you would like to attend the session at 2pm on 30 October, please get in touch with the village on 09 535 0220.

by Maryvonne Gray | Oct 7, 2026

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